Sunday At Elim Church

Today was the first Sunday we have been at Elim in over 6 months.  The people were as usual very friendly and lots of new young faces. That is good for the church.  This church thing has really come between Gary and myself.  He does what I want, but without saying anything, he resents the whole thing.  I can give in to most anything, but when it goes against my conviction and what I believe in...I can't.   So it is what it is!!!   

I have my roast in the oven and kids coming for dinner...I hope it will be ok.  

More later, 

Mom 

Finished the blue room

I finally did it....I really cleaned out that room and I had a whole garbage bag full of just "stuff".  Sometimes you just have to let go!  I did NOT get rid of my vintage hankys.  Oh my gosh....am I gay??? I just read that Ellen has a passion for antique hankerchiefs also.  LOL   She gave them out to her guests at her recent wedding.  

I think my friend coming from CA.  has inspired me to clean this room and make it a little more adult.  What was I thinking...with all the teddy bears and "Fox in the Box" books.   I even had a baby rattle under the bed!

I so wanted to hear Obama's speech last night, but I fell asleep about half way.   He has my vote anyway.  If he does what he says....we will all be better off.  

Gary is working again today.   I did not go to the pool this a.m..... shame...just couldn't get moving this a.m. 

I had shopping and lunch with my 2 daughters yesterday.   I am very proud of them both.   I must have done something right because they are strong women with a very soft side with the grandchildren.  Good job!!!

Happy Labor day holiday to everyone

More later.... 

Patricia 

power shopping with Margie

It is a rainy day, but it won't keep the shoppers away.  It has been a busy week....Gary's Mom had her heart jump started on tues....not too bad for a 95 year old.  I hope Gary has some of her genes.  He has been having trouble breathing lately, but the Dr. says it is not his heart.  He has lost so much weight (45 lbs.) that his whole body is in total rehaul.  I would be lying if I was not a bit jealous of all his compliments, but he deserves and he really looks nice.  

I had a bone density test on Wed, that is the easier and less invasive test I have ever had done, but I don't really think I have weak bones.  We will see.  

I had lunch with my school mates yesterday.  I guess E. Star has taught me one thing about keeping on the agenda and getting things done.  We are in the process of getting our reunion together for 2009....our 55th.  We have lost 29 members out of a class of 90.   That is kind of scary!!!  

Later....I have a very important date...

Love, 

MOm 

Sunday at home

Well, I made my decision to stay at home today.  I had to really ask myself...what do you REALLY want to do today and myself said just stay home.  Sometimes it is a luxury to not have to live by the clock or calendar for a while and maybe just stay in your p j's all day.  

This church thing is really dividing Gary and I.   I sense that we are getting farther and farther apart.  He chooses to work almost full time and when he is home, he is in the basement or on the computer or ipod.   Could be worse....this too shall pass.  

So I think I will try to finish my book today and list it on Good Reads..... may need help from Maggie.  I will try to start the ironing....how did I get so far behind???? 

Much to do this coming week....lazy today.....

Thinking of you.....

Patsy Montana 

 

Karen' open house

Fri. night we went to visitation for the Srail's daughter and then out to dinner with Luths, Benners and Val. at the Captain's Table.  I collected $152.  for the humane society in her memory. 

I really planned to take the chair and bike over to Beth's today, but Olivia was here most of the day.   Gary keeps disappearing.  Dorothy, Livie and I went to the open house at Karen's house.  She had a big crowd, but it was a challenge watching Livie with her cake and candy and drink.   We managed ok and did not stay long.  Mrs. Donut was there and had to tell me all the details of Jim's outrageous behavior.   Some people have no class.   I really did not need to hear all that this afternoon.  Karen's house was sooo hot and I couldn't get out of there fast enough.  

After coming home we went to Block Busters and got some movies for Livie and pizza for supper.   It is easier to eat at home with her.  Jake had his first soccer game out of town today.   He won his game and looked so cute in his uniform.  He will be coming tomorrow for a visit. 

Gary gave me an ultimatim today.....I have to choose between Jerry's church and Elim.   He wants a church home and does not want to run around town looking for another church.  I guess it will be Elim, even though I think they are cliqueish, but we did see Gary Wells at Block Buster so perhaps that is an omen that we should go back.  We will see....

More to come. 

Mom 

Shopping makes everything better!

I skipped going to the Y this a.m. and instead did some power shopping.   I bought a new blanket at Target.  It is really soft and cozy.  I did not buy any clothes!!!   I bought a bright red sauce pan on sale at Dillards for $20.  They had some really good bargains on calphon cookware...but not too much cooking in this kitchen any more.  

I managed to get home in time to get my nap in and then started to make choc chip cookies for Srails.  Vida came over and stayed for a while.  Srail's daughter passed away and my job was too collect money from the neighbors.  It took me 2 hours as everyone wanted to  visit, but it is a good way to meet all your neighbors. 

More tomorrow....Gary is finally going to be home!!!!  

Love, 

Mom  

Back Fire!!!!

Soooo I spent time and energy putting the electric blanket back on the bed and guess what happened????   Gary couldn't wait to get home from E. Star to get into the crisp cool sheets.   Am I missing something here????  It is too confusing and minor to spend any more time thinking about it.  

I think my problem may be that I always think people say what they mean and I take it for face value.  It could be a virtue or a curse....I am not sure.  

Vida and I walked this a.m. I am in the midst of cleaning the closet in the blue room.  It is time to let go of the size 14 and 16s.  It is what it is!!!   I  guess the most important thing is that every morning I feel great and most times happy.  

The house is quiet today....seems like I am spending more and more time alone, which is not all that bad.  

More later, I need to get with the closet. 

Love, 

Pleasing Plump Sister Ann 

Dog days of summer

I was up at 6 today and went to the Y.  I have been trying to clean the closet in the blue room.  I do have too many shoes and purses.  What's new pussy cat???

Gary went to work early this morning and I made the ultimate sacrifice for him.   I finally put the electric blanket back on the bed.  Every night it is the same routine...."these sheets are soooo cold".  I simply love the feel of crisp white sheets and I would put my pillow in the refrig if there was room.  Anyway, it is not worth arguing about any more.  

It was nice to have Beth and Dan last night for supper...they should come more often...or I should cook more often.... .  Dan was not as funny as usual, but then he just got home from a long ride on his bike. 

Well, I will either have to finish the closet or take a nap....it is time.   Janet from CA. is coming to visit with us 22 Sept. for just one night. 

later Gator...no church news...maybe we should try Lutheran, but not MO. syn.....too strict. 

Love, 

Mom 

I am back!!!!

It's hard to believe it has been a whole week since I have written.  I don't think it was such a busy week.   I will have to look back on my calendar to find out what I did all week.  Monday we got the new washer and drier in the basement.  Also, paid the taxes.  Tues. was Chris'  47th birthday.  He called me before I had a chance to call him first.  I also went to the beauty shop for a pedicure and came home to take a nap.  Tues. night was "Star" night and I did look pretty nice in my new sheer black blouse.  Gary said so.....Wed. Margie cleaned and Max stayed with us overnight.  We went to the Mall and purchased yet another webkinz and a book from Waldens.  He slept on the couch all night with the tv on.   I woke up about 3 p.m.  but I left the tv on for him.  We also ate supper at Steak and Shake.  I was telling Max that when I first ate at Steak and Shake was in Champaign in 1956.  We used to go there on our lunch hour from work at the Univ.

Thurs. was a busy day.  I went to WW this a.m.  Margie came after Max and we had Dr. appts at Dr. Mac and then I talked Gary into taking me to N.Park Mall.  I will never forgive him for misleading me, by telling me that Von Maur was just around the corner from Barnes and Noble.  While he was browsing and reading at Barnes and Noble...I was walking and walking and walking.  We ate dinner at USA tonight.  

Friday was another busy day.  Margie finished cleaning and brought donuts.   Gary and I walked 2 miles.  Then we took Gary's mom to the foot dr.  and then to the grocery store.  I was sure she would not want to go to the Moose with us, but she said yes....I wanted to talk with my brother, but she doesn't hear too much.  Pauline is really using her Belguim Blood to get him down.  He said she refuses to be in the same room with him and will not speak a word to him.  He does his own cooking and laundry.   Oh well,  time will tell.  He is spending a lot of time in Sheffield and playing lots of golf.   He is in a golf tournament this week-end.

There was not a lot of cooking done here this week as I look back, however, tonight we stayed home and we had Schwan's spagetti and garlic bread.  Karen was here this afternoon with the invitation to her open house.  We were sitting on the porch when she came and she leaned over and put her head on Gary's shoulder.   Hmmmmm  She is something!!!   Of course, he IS irrestiable (sp).   I wish this thing had spell check!!!  

Well, later gator.....another different church tomorrow.....

Love and hugs, 

Mom  

     

BEAUTIFUL SUNDAY

We attended First Covenant Church this a.m. with Gary's Mom.   It is away from the anti-gay place, but oh that music is enough to put you to sleep!!!   After church, we went to Penora's for lunch.  Gary's mom is pretty hep for such an old lady.....

We went to the Luth's for a picnic tonight to celebrate the storm damage.  We sat with Bernice and Jim Srail...I was thinking that Bernice is like a little bit of history. She was a nurse working under General Patton at the Battle of the Bulge.   She said it was not like "MASH".  

Dr. Johnson was there with a date.   Hmmmmm.  It was the first we had met her.  I wonder if she works in his office. 

We are home now watching the Olympics. 

Paying taxes tomorrow and delivering washer and drier.   Margie cleaning  (I think) 

Love, 

Mom 

8-8-08

I finally made it to the Y this a.m.  I can tell that I have not been for awhile because I am stiff....I really did not get too much done today....still working on laundry.  Max was here this afternoon.  He is excited about going to the Dells in a week or so.  He is a good boy and very talented. 

We went to dinner at the Legion in Moline.   I am not sure how things are going with Jim and Pauline.  The last time I talked with Jim, he said things were worse.  

We ate dinner with Gary's Mom and sister.  

I have been thinking all day about how I was going to tell Gary that I was Not going back to the church we were attending and out of the blue, he suggested we start going to First Covenant!!!!  Must be magic.....I balanced my check book and now I must wake Gary up to go to bed.   

We watched the opening of the Olympic games. 

Later, 

Mom 

21 days without cable

At last we have cable and internet.  Mediacom came today and finally got us hooked up.  I walked this a.m. with my new ipod.  Vida is home, but when I went to get her, she was still in her jamies.  

I went to the beauty shop at 11:00 and had my hair trimmed and colored.  This is a new record for me to stay this long with the same hairdresser...I think at least one year.  I  hurried home for the cable to come because if we were not at home, we would have to reschedule!!!  YIKes!!

I am still working on laundry from MN and not having power....it should go quicker after Mon.  We bought a new washer and drier from Sears tonight.  It was  on sale and they will remove the old ones free.  It seems like a luxury, but Gary can do his towels and underwear downstairs and also we have quite a lot of company.  They can do their laundry before going home.   I suspect the twins will be here at Christmas and they require a lot of washing.

Nothing much new today...Max will visit tomorrow...good thing we have cable or he would be bored. 

I bought Chris's shoes and a polo shirt last night for his birthday.  

Later Gator, 

Mom  

7th day in MN

It won't be long now....we are on the down side of boys.....the dog vomited on the porch yesterday and that was quite a commotion to get someone to clean it up.  We went back to the Big Mall yesterday and Gary took the boys shopping while I looked around Macys.  We ate dinner at Applebees last night and it was in a small mall....nothing new there.  

Today Luke left for a ball game and if he wins...it will be a back to back game....right in the heat of the day.  We will go for a little while, but the heat if just too much for both of us, but Gary won't admit.  

I made taco soup this a.m.....the first time I really cooked as it is really hard in someone else's kitchen.  Melissa and I do not think alike at all in the kitchen....but who does???  

I am anxious to come home and have a routine in my life again....I do get out of my comfort zone.....okay.....later from Moline, IL.  

Love, 

Mom