My brother was here for dinner last night. We have had a tradition of eating together as couples for at least 15 years. Last night he came alone. Pauline sent an email stating that she no longer eats with him and that we were not responsible for his "bad behavior". I first wanted to reply what about her "bad behavior"????? Perhaps this is why I am not able to sleep. Jim had not heard my old saying of "sticks and bones will break your bones, but silence breaks the heart". I think it may be time for him to start playing a little hard ball with her. This to shall pass....
I have been thinking about what I want to accomplish in this new year. I won't even mention losing weight...it is always just out of grasp...another whole story. I have finally figured out why I overeat....I have a compulsive behavior....(not "bad") and I just replace one bad habit with another. I gave up smoking for drinking and drinking for eating...it goes on and on..now if I could only stop shopping...but what else is left???? I still have fairly good health so I am very grateful for that and also for the health of my kids and grandkids.
I am looking forward to a great year with Maggie's graduation from Augie. She has a very bright future and I hope she follows through with her dreams. Jane also has a great future ahead of her and I would like to see her go to Sweden for a semester. These opportunities come along once in a lifetime.
I wish you all calm and peace and contentment for 2009. "Tough times never last, but tough people do."
Love,
Mom
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