If I had my life to live over, I would change a few goals in my life. Through the years I have found that it is much better to have your own money.....it is soooo sweet and freeing. I have been with or without and it is much better to be with!!! If your husband or wife has an income of 1 million per year, it is still good to have your own $$$.
I would spend more time creating a career that I dearly loved rather than a job to pay the rent. I would have been much better qualified to work in the health care in some way, rather than in an office. I had the compassion and fortitude to do that in my younger years. I spent way too much time and energy looking for someone else to take care of me, rather than taking care of myself. I say that with tongue in cheek, as I really LOVE staying home and I think it was a pure luxury to have been at home all those years when my kids were babies and growing up. I can't even imagine how these young mothers bundle up these little babies in this cold and go to work.
My life seems very complete to me right now and there are always "wants" but very little needs. I would like to be a little more self-disciplined, but for the most part, I am fairly happy about how my life turned out. (except I am never happy with my hair, but if I did "I would be in someone else's body") LOL
Enough reflections for today....I love Sunday afternoons and I cheated by not going to church today.
Later I will discuss "What I did for Love" to be continued.
Pat the wife today
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